Let Others Read Your Writing? Wise or Foolish?

Be A NovelistIt All Depends

Should you allow others access to read your novel-in-progress? Is that a smart thing to do? This question constantly plagues beginning novelists.  In truth, it’s a sticky wicket.  There’re no easy, pat answers.  My reply when asked this question, is to say, “It all depends…”

Throughout my many years as an instructor for a writing correspondence school, as a speaker and instructor at various writers conferences, and in my role as a writing coach, this question comes up quite often.

flower in snowNewbie novelists are often like fragile little flowers that have popped their heads up with the warmth of early spring.  All it takes is one sharp dip in the temperature and that bud is a goner.  And one cold remark from the wrong source can do the same thing to you and your writing aspirations.

What State is Your Story In?

So do you lay your musings out for all to see and read? Here’s why my answer is, “It all depends…”

It all depends on what state your story is in.  In the idea stage? Barely started?  Half finished?  Rough draft? Polished?

One rule that I’ve set for myself and have stuck with this since the outset of my career – I never discuss a novel while it’s in the idea stage. I have two reasons for this.

  1. It’s still too weak and fragile to put into the head or hands of someone else. Their input could derail the project.  (Now I know you’re thinking that perhaps their input could be valuable.  True.  But I’m not willing to take that risk!)
  2. I don’t want to expend the creative energy by talking out my ideas. I would much rather expend that energy into writing out the idea.

Who is Doing the Reading?

It all depends on who is reading your work. Does this reader have any knowledge of fiction structure and novel-writing techniques?  Or is it a close friend or relative who would never want to hurt your feelings?   Ask yourself – what are you looking for? Upward strokes? Or constructive criticism?  Be honest!

Your Inner Resolve

It all depends on your own inner resolve. If you are still weak and shaky in your own writing confidence, I would be very cautious about letting just anyone read your work. It could open the door for self-doubt, which could lead you to quit. If you have a measure of confidence under your belt, and know you can’t be swayed, then it’s not quite such a colossal risk.

It all depends on whether you can trust this reader to be honest with you.

The Best Advice

Here’s the best advice I can give on the subject:

  • enter a legitimate writing contest and let the judge(s) give feedback
  • find a trustworthy critique service and allow that professional to give feedback
  • join a writers’ group or club and let these trusted folk give feedback
  • engage the services of an experienced writing coach

True Story

True story:  When I served as coordinator for the annual Professionalism in Writing School, there would inevitably be one or two attendees who chased after guest editors with a large stationary box in their hands.  (We all knew there was a manuscript in that box! Hello.)  They wanted someone to “look over their work” and give feedback.  Of course no one had that kind of time at a busy writers conference.

The saddest part of the story is that we would see those same people return the next year with the same box and the same manuscript.  It was pretty clear, they were never going to send the work out; they were just looking for upward strokes!

Don’t let that be said of you! If your deepest desire is to be a novelist, your path should ascend above that kind of nonsense.

Stop Spinning Your Wheels

The key is to study your craft and then write, write, and keep on writing.  Don’t spin your wheels running around trying to find someone to slap some kind of instant blessing on your work. You’ll never be a novelist that way.

Examine your motives and then use great caution and wisdom when letting others read your novel-in-progress.

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